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Back to blogging + June currents

13 June 201612 June 2016

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Breaking the silence on the blog this past month with a list of Currents as I ease back into life after a very, very fulfilling and restful trip with my favorite people.

I had all these big ideas for scheduling posts, but as you might’ve guessed, things didn’t quite work out as I planned.

Trying: to tolerate the humidity. Singapore’s weather is killin’ it.

Reading: Essentialism by Greg McKeown and Newspaper Blackout by Austin Kleon

Missing: the feeling of being on vacation, but

Loving: everything we did, places we saw, and people we hung out with – so good! So grateful for safety, travel, delicious food and memories made.

Planning: to be productive this week.

Hoping: everything goes as planned so I can get lots done this week.

Praying: about new seasons of life.

Learning: lots from webinars. So many good ones, and many of them are free!

Catching up: on my to-do lists.

Dreaming: of big plans and experimenting with new things.

Remembering: to not be afraid of failure, nor of trying.

Looking forward: to making stuff again with all my new supplies from the USA. Also, I really want to get on top of documenting all our travels!

Feeling: excited about sharing my creative workspace on Crafted by Pam! I’ve never shown my crafty space in this much detail before – it’s where all the magic happens, which isn’t always pretty, but it’s definitely worth it! It’s been up for awhile so hop over if you missed it.

Here’s to the rest of June being just as rad; have a wonderfully productive week! xx.

The Magic of Beginnings

4 January 2016

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“And suddenly you know… It’s time to start something new and trust the magic of beginnings.”

– Meister Eckhart

Woohoo, welcome to 2016!

I’ve been gone from this blog (and really, just social media in general) for way too long but the new year is the perfect opportunity to begin again and I’m glad to finally be back!

During the last quarter of 2015, I started student teaching and soon realized that I couldn’t do it all. So I hit the pause button on some things (like social media), in order to thrive and keep up with other things (like real life). The focus shift to real, unedited life explains my absence from any sort of social media.

Looking back now, 2015 was a big year for me personally and professionally. I got this blog on an official “dot com”, graduated from school, created and documented many memories, formed new friendships and deepened others, tried new things, learned new lessons, and gained fresh experiences, amidst other exciting adventures.

Looking forward, I’m excited for what 2016 has in store, including big blog goals, more documenting and creating, and another year on the One Little Bird Creative Team.

I’ve missed writing, creating and community but I’m excited to face 2016 with big dreams, grand plans and achievable goals.

Stay tuned to read more about my 2016 goals later this week!

Happy sparkle-filled New Year, friends.

Count your blessings, name them one by one

7 May 2015

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Things have been busy around here as I wrap up the spring term, celebrate birthdays, and make plans for summer school, amidst other activities.

And with so much going on, it’s easy to get stressed out and a little frustrated/worried/frazzled sometimes.

Especially after reading Ali’s post, I thought today, now, would be a perfect time to remind myself of all the things I’m thankful for at this point in my life.

23 things I’m thankful for:

  1. I’m thankful for family dinners.
  2. I’m thankful for projects and assignments that keep me busy.
  3. I’m thankful for nights of good rest.
  4. I’m thankful for laughter and inside jokes.
  5. I’m thankful for down-to-earth friends I can connect with.
  6. I’m thankful for opportunities to trust and learn and grow.
  7. I’m thankful for the convenience of technology.
  8. I’m thankful for encouraging professors who make my college experience what it is.
  9. I’m thankful for creative outlets.
  10. I’m thankful for air-conditioning on warm evenings.
  11. I’m thankful for the newness of mornings.
  12. I’m thankful for rain.
  13. I’m thankful for the bonds of family that hold us together so, so tightly.
  14. I’m thankful for my faith that keeps me grounded.
  15. I’m thankful for the amusement of sing-aloud sessions.
  16. I’m thankful for the strengths of my ESFJ personality. And also for its weaknesses.
  17. I’m thankful for challenges that make me stronger.
  18. I’m thankful for people who are willing to tell me the hard things.
  19. I’m thankful for grace, mercy, love.
  20. I’m thankful for situations that train me to look past the surface.
  21. I’m thankful for the hope, excitement and anticipation of possibilities.
  22. I’m thankful for people who are willing to listen.
  23. I’m thankful for the gift of life.

Permission to disconnect

22 January 2015

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Note: I wrote this post a few months ago, and added the final words this week. And since it still applies now, I figured that today was a good day to publish it.

It happened slowly, at first.

I was especially busy one of the days during the week and didn’t have time to get to the end of my Instagram feed. Well, never mind, because I could always catch-up tomorrow. The next day, I started scrolling, but didn’t quite get to the end either.

Before I knew it, I was too many days “behind” to catch-up and would have missed some posts from fellow Instagrammers.

In the end, I decided to stop trying to get to the bottom of my Instagram feed.

If I had time to scroll through Instagram that day, I would. Otherwise, I would scroll for as long as I could and leave it at that if I didn’t see everything.

And it was incredibly freeing.

It was incredibly freeing just checking in whenever I wanted to, not simply because I “had to” get to the end of my feed for that day. It’s ironic how something that’s supposed to be fun can become such a chore or duty sometimes.

The truth is, most days, being on Instagram (or social media in general) takes up way more time than it should for me. To procrastinate reading school assignments, I scroll through my Instagram feed. To postpone doing chores, I read blogs. Social media becomes more of a way of escape than connecting me to people like it should.

So instead of using social media for the sake of it, I’ve decided to make it fun again by connecting and disconnecting as I need to. After all, life needs to be lived and I’m choosing to be present for what is happening today, right now.

Because sometimes, I like to disconnect. And that’s okay.

6 ways to get ready for a New Year

29 December 2014

Get ready for 2015 with these 6 ways

And just like that, Christmas is over.

I really wish Christmas lasted longer than just a day, but I hope you had a wonderful day celebrating with loved ones and remembering the true meaning of Christmas, just like I did.

Now, we are only three days away from the New Year.

Pretty crazy right.

I love how each New Year is a brand-new chance to build new memories, to chase new dreams, to learn new lessons.

But a new year is also scary in some ways because nothing in the future is certain. Despite all the uncertainty that is ahead, I love getting ready for a New Year.

So as we look forward to all that is head, here are six ways to get ready for 2015.

1. Reflect on the past year.

What was 2014 like for you? What did you learn? What experiences did you have? I like using these questions to help me reflect on the year.

2. Decide what will change.

Now that you’ve had 365 more days of experience, what would you like to change in the New Year? Since there are always ways to evolve, change and grow, now is a good time to determine how 2015 will be different from the year before.

3. Start new habits.

Choose which habits you will form in the New Year and get excited for them! I embarked on my first habit challenge in November and I look forward to more new habits next year.

4. Set goals.

Whether you call them goals, resolutions, or intentions, the New Year is a great time to start anew with a fresh, clean slate of things you want to accomplish in the New Year.

5. Be accountable.

Find people who will keep you accountable for the goals you have set for yourself in 2015.

6. Get organized.

Whether it’s physical or metaphorical, leave the clutter of the past year behind and figure out how you will simplify your life in the coming year. Organize your life and get ready to start 2015 afresh!

So how are you getting ready for the New Year?

30 Day Habit Challenge | 9 things I learned

10 December 2014

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I made it.

Last month, I embarked on a challenge to form the habit of waking up early for thirty days and I finally finished the month.

It wasn’t easy, and I didn’t do it perfectly. But I’m glad that I did this.

And I definitely learned some lessons along the way.

1. Start small.

My first goal was to wake up before 8 am. As the habit challenge progressed, I adjusted my goal to wake up before 730 am. I struggled with this one a little bit more but I’m getting there.

2. Be accountable.

Caylee and I emailed each other during the month. It was helpful for me to have an accountability partner and know that I was not alone. Caylee gave lots of encouragement, which helped me to stay motivated during the month.

I also told my mom about my habit challenge so she would wake me up if I still wasn’t out of bed when I needed to be.

3. Don’t make excuses.

This was especially true for me on days when I missed my alarm by just a couple of minutes. I had to constantly remind myself that it was better to wake up a couple of minutes late, than to give up and waste more time sleeping in, since “I woke up late” anyway. No excuses.

4. Weekends are the toughest.

I struggled the most on the weekends when I was tempted to sleep in, or catch up on sleep. I tried to push through it as much as possible but wasn’t always successful.

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5. If you miss a day, don’t let yourself get discouraged.

But also, try not to miss two days in a row.

I read that you shouldn’t miss two days in a row because it breaks your habit. But at some point, it happened and I did miss two days, especially over the weekends (I told you they were hard!).

When that happened, I had to focus on my next point.

6. Remember your goal.

My planning from Tiago Forte’s Skillshare class came in handy as I progressed and when things became discouraging. I needed to look back on my plan and remind myself that some progress is better than none and that I am doing better now than I was in the beginning.

Even if you fail, figure out what went wrong and try again.

7. Sleep early to wake up early.

In so many ways, the success of tomorrow depends on today. That means planning for tomorrow the night before, and sleeping early so I could wake up early the next day.

Since I was accustomed to sleeping late, making this adjustment was hard for me. It’s still something I’m working on, and some nights I sleep later than others, but I’m more conscious about getting to bed earlier, instead of working through the night to get work done.

8. There will be good days and bad days.

And since life isn’t perfect, the good and bad days will come and learning to adjust your habit as life happens is necessary. The point of this challenge is not to be perfect, but to create a habit that is sustainable and long-term. So keep that in mind as the month progresses.

9. Listen to your body.

I was fighting the flu for the final few days of this habit so I didn’t finish the month as well as I would’ve liked. But I listened to my body and gave myself the extra rest. Ultimately, I had to figure out what worked for me and my lifestyle, not simply what everyone else did.

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Looking back on the past month, I don’t think my habit is thoroughly ingrained yet and waking up early isn’t as automatic as I would like for it to be. But it’s definitely much easier than when I first started and I’ve made progress since the beginning. So I’m happy about that and would consider this past month a success!

What are my plans going forward? I definitely want to keep continue incorporating early waking into my daily routine and let my body adjust to waking up at an even earlier time in the coming months.

I won’t be trying a new habit in December, but I’m already thinking about the next habit I want to build in January when the New Year arrives.

Did you do this habit challenge too? What did you learn during the month? Let me know in the comments!

30 Day Habit Challenge

4 November 2014

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Here’s the thing about habits: Bad habits are so easy to start and so hard to break. But good habits are so hard to start and so easy to break.

Strange, huh.

For several months now, I’ve been trying to incorporate the habit of waking up earlier. But truthfully, I haven’t been doing well with it. That’s mostly because I end up hitting the snooze button and sleeping in longer than I should (I’m not the only one right?).

So when I saw that Caylee was starting a 30-day habit challenge (accompanied with her official Habit planner printable set), I decided that it was the perfect time to actually make this habit a reality. Plus, I totally appreciate having a community and the support and accountability that comes with it.

I originally planned to start on November 1 and continue all month long. But I really needed the extra sleep this past weekend so I wasn’t able to get up as early as I would’ve liked.

So instead, I used Monday (yesterday) as my Day Zero and Tuesday (today) as my Day One. This means that the thirty days will go a little into December, but I don’t mind. I figured it was better to start on a strong note, instead of feeling defeated right from the start.

Inspired by Caylee, I worked through Tiago Forte’s Design Your Habit course on Skillshare and came up with my specific plan on Day Zero.

My plan of action for the next thirty days is based on Tiago Forte’s 11 milestones, which he covers in the course:

PLAN OF ACTION

  • Identify my new keystone habit

My habit is to wake up earlier. For me, I’m working towards waking up before 8am during the first week, and then adjusting the time so I wake up before 7am before the month is over.

  • Choose an existing anchor habit as your new trigger

After I hear my alarm, I will get out of bed.

  • Choose a reward for completing your habit

I get to cross the day off my tracker when I successfully complete my habit for the day.

  • Choose a reminder

My primary phone alarm will ring at 7am, and again at 7.15am.

  • State your implementation intentions

When I hear my morning alarm, I will wake up and get out of bed because I believe that waking up early helps me to be productive during the day and be a good steward of the time I have been given.

  • Make your habit easy to start by identifying your small wins

  1. Get out of bed immediately
  2. Snooze once
  3. Wake up before 8am
  4. Wake up and read
  5. Put my feet on the floor
  • Identify your loopholes and closers

“I didn’t have enough sleep last night and I’m too tired.” – Sleeping in and waking up late makes me go to bed late, which leads to a vicious cycle for my habit.

“I missed my alarm. Just five more minutes.” – I have lots to do today; the earlier I wake up, the more time I have to complete my work and get things done, instead of wasting time in bed.

  • Modify your environment

I place my phone across the room so I have to physically get out of bed to turn off the alarm.

  • Choose a habit tracking approach and tool

I am recording and tracking my habit in my Pretty Organized Habit planner.

  • Select an accountability system

Caylee is my accountability partner and I’ll be checking in with her during the challenge.

  • Evaluate your results

At the end of the challenge, I’ll blog about it with updates!

I think this could be the best thirty days yet, and I’m excited to see how this next month will go.

Let’s do this.

This is how real life looks like.

23 July 2014

I’ll be honest and tell you that I got a little stressed out thinking up blog posts this week. It seemed like the inspiration had run pretty dry.

When you spend so much time reading blogs and being inspired by others, sometimes it’s hard to actually blog because there’s so much to compare to: People have perfectly edited blog photos and branding. They have interesting content. They make blogging look so easy (but we all know that it isn’t).

I know bloggers don’t have perfect lives, but sometimes it’s easy to think that way.

That said, I’m all about defying perfection and embracing imperfection instead. So this is how my real life looks like:

It doesn’t look like an Instagram-worthy picture.

It isn’t full of creative projects that I work on every day.

It isn’t always pretty or fun or exciting.

It’s full of school books and to-do lists.

It’s full of trying to stay focused and productive and not distracted.

It has good days, tough days, in-between days.

Real life is hard, sometimes scary, always worth it.

And I’m embracing every moment that comes with it.

This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Psalm 118:24, ESV

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Hit pause.

9 July 2014

When life gets busy, I’m reminded that it’s okay to pause, take a break, and step away from the busyness sometimes.

And that’s how it’s been for me these past couple of weeks – trying to make the everyday moments count because I only get one shot. As I stay busy creating adventure and living life, those are the moments that add up.

I’ll be back with regular posting soon. Thank you for sticking with me.

You guys are the best.

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Right now | Thursday

22 May 2014

At first glance it may appear too hard. Look again. Always look again. - Mary Anne Radmacher

Being reminded by the above quote.

Striving to thrive in this crazy busyness of life.

Trying to find a good balance between school and life.

Writing lists and planning.

Remembering to have priorities and choose wisely.

Choosing not to stress out over (unfinished) projects.

Laughing.

Making memories.

Making time for things and people who matter.

Having fun.

Noticing the every day moments.

Still needing to go running.

Learning to embrace each season.

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Come what may and love it.

I hope your week has been amazing! xx.

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A Singapore city girl who documents the every day adventures in crafting and purposeful living. Loves Jesus and likes laughing, making memories, crafty stuff and being inspired.

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